What Is Training Your Man All About?

When we say training your man, what do we really mean?  What are we training him to do?  The Tweak-a-Weeks will initially focus on getting him to do things you would like him to do, but is that really what it’s all about?  Do you want a guy who is obedient, or do you want someone who would do anything for you because you’re the most important person in his world to him?  Being in love is awesome because it fulfills a basic primal need for a deep connection with another person.  By training your man, you can reconnect with him.  The Tweak-a-Week assignments are nothing but a vehicle to develop a connection between him and you.  What you want is someone who will stand by you and be as solid as a rock, someone who will always make you a priority in their life.

The assignments will frequently focus on giving something but the giving is not about giving or receiving.  The assignments are about creating a deep enduring connection between the two of you.  As the author Leo Tolstoy said, “We do not love people so much for the good they have done us, as for the good we have done them.”  Think about why women love their children.  Is it because of everything they do for us, or is it because everything we do for them?

There are some simple truths in life.  One of the most basic truths is that we have an overwhelming desire to find another person to share life with.  On one hand, we want to find someone to share our life with.  But on the other hand, we do not want to lose ourselves.  It’s similar to learning how to swim.  We want to learn how to swim, but we’re afraid to jump in the deep water.  We are looking for that one person who will stand by us and make us feel complete.  We are born like a puzzle piece with one half missing.  Think about how it feels to eat in a restaurant all alone when you’re surrounded by couples.  It naturally feels uncomfortable to be alone.  It’s both scary and exhilarating to let another person in.  We crave companionship, but fear that opening ourselves up will make us vulnerable to being hurt or disappointed.  My Man Training is simply all about bringing men and women together to be loving companions to each other.  The simple truth is that men want to love women and be loved by women.  Women want to love men and be loved by men.  Somewhere along the way, things frequently go wrong.

Every week, the Tweak-a-Weeks will remind each of you why you fell in love with each other in the first place.  If you want to get that loving feeling back or if you want to ensure that that loving feeling is going to stay, it’s a good idea to spend a few minutes each week working on the relationship.  When you and your man work on the Tweak-a-Weeks week after week, you won’t be able to help but have a closer relationship.  Don’t look at the individual Tweak-a-Week assignment as an end in itself.  If the assignment isn’t going too well, it doesn’t matter.  What matters is that the two of you are working together for a common goal.  The common goal is to create a deeper connection between the two of you.

Training Your Man Is the Most Loving Thing You Can Do For Him and You!